Posterchild

It seems I've become the poster child for happilly divorced women. I'm currently in the throes of my divorce and it's never been as clear to me now why I choose to divorce this man. I have an amazing new man in my life who means the world to me. He is what my soul needs right now, though do I stop short of calling him my soul mate...(come on now, I've learned better than to call anyone THAT!)

I finally changed jobs which has also lifted my soul and spirits, I have my life back! It's always so important to find a job where the environment is supportive and you don't dread returning to on Monday morning. Life is just too short for toxic men, toxic work environments, toxic relationships. These are toxicities in your system you can actually control!

My girlfriends are telling me they miss me, my happy energy is something they want to be near. One friend who is going through a messy and painful divorce sees the end of the tunnel when she hears about my new man and how happy it can be after all. (Hey, the kids will need therapy like us anyway, even if their parents were "happy married") Others still have relationships outside their marriages in order to be fulfilled. Not something I would have done, but who am I to judge? I choose not too. I am only too aware of the pain of vacuuming up what's swept under the rug.